British singer Duncan James calls himself gay, but says he could still have sex with a woman. The boyband member came out as bisexual back in , and later identified as gay. Speaking exclusively to Gay Star News, the Blue member said he realises people like people like him to be ‘put in a box. AFTER years of is he isn't he, it seems Duncan James has finally confirmed once and for all he is a gay man. Duncan James has said that coming out as gay was the 'best thing he ever did' after years of 'living a lie'. The Blue singer appeared on today's Loose Women to reveal details of his "coming out journey" to the panel. The Hollyoaks actor, who's character Ryan Knight has also been on a journey with.